Jumat, November 20, 2009

Perspective



Almost all of the decisions have made are the result from our perspective of seeing the case, and commonly the perspective had influenced by the position where we were standing at that time...

For example nih ya, bagi mereka yang sedang atau pernah mengalami menjadi wanita kedua, pasti kalau ngeliat sesamanya bakal menaruh simpati. Beda ketika kamu sudah menjadi istri, it will be a simply annoying thing to discuss about polygamy, rite??..


Sebenarnya sih, gw suka sama orang-orang yang bisa memiliki banyak perspektif hidup, tapi... memiliki suatu prinsip ternyata lebih penting lagi... Karena kadang kita sering goyang dengan opini, cacian maupun rayuan dari orang lain, but if we have a faith of somthin pasti bakal beda movement nya, jauh lebih mantab biasanya..


Karena itu yang terpenting adalah memiliki prinsip. Karena posisi bagaimanapun tidak ada yang bisa selalu menjamin. Maka, bersyukurlah bila sudah bisa menemukan posisi yang baik dan benar :D. Maksudnya posisi dimana kita tidak menyakiti dan disakiti oleh apapun dan siapapun. Karena ya itu, perspektif kita bakal kacau. Kebenayakan cenderung menyalahkan orang lain dan menghalalkan segala cara buat membenarkan diri sendiri...


Tapi memang sih, kita gak akan selamanya di zona yang nyaman tersebut, adakalanya kita di posisi yang salah. kalau menurut gw sih asal jangan putus asa aja, Insya Allah itu cukup..


Hehehe, sebenarnya sih gw cuma ingin ngomong satu hal di posting ini, yang dari kemarin rada malu mengungkapkannya :D.
Cuma mau bilang, saya bahagia di posisi ini...
^^

Selasa, November 17, 2009

Introspection



There's always surprisingly thing at November.
But this year is a lil bit different than before.

In this year, apparently found me in a point where i could be conscious of my self, especially my inexperiences. And of course i found that after all this time how conceited I was (mmm, till now maybe)


But thanks God...

Family, friends, job, social life, spiritual moment, challenges, affection, deeper understanding and acceptance are so obvious in my life.
These are make me see clearly that I'm still nothin...

Too bad, I still can be influenced easily just by some bad words even by people who have no relation with me at all. Ugh, I know that's too bad, and i don't like it.
Honestly, I really wanna change my uncontrolled temperament.

I think I should try being a person who have a good self ego controlling...

And that's not easy i know, but it's a must...


There's always surprisingly thing at November.

I thought someone who could be with me was someone who always understand me, never judge my mistakes, always see what i see and counseled me gently. I know, that's wonderful if we have someone like this. But, that wasn't good always and life have taught me this anyway...

Well, this is my a quarter of century
rrrr.. my twenty five exactly... :)
still young, rite? ;p
yes... it's still young of course ;P
so many thing I haven't know yet
so many thing I haven't see
and so many thing I haven't done
But, thanks for God for everything
For everything i have and for everything i couldn't have...
thanks...^^

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